By Suleiman Tajudeen
CITIZENS COMPASS– Domestic violence is a form of behaviour where a partner in a relationship seeks to exert power and control over the other, often through physical, emotional, or psychological means.
It is a serious issue that tends to be overlooked for a long time, both globally and in Nigeria. Historically, domestic violence has been associated with women as victims, while men are often seen as perpetrators. However, this narrative is changing as more cases of men being abused by their intimate partners come to light.
Global Perspective
In the United States, a survey of 16,000 Americans showed that 7.4% of men reported being physically assaulted by a current or former spouse, cohabiting partner, or lovers in their lifetime.
In Canada, a 2004 survey found that 6% of males were physically or sexually victimized by their partners.
In England and Wales, a 2010 survey by the UK Home Office showed that 4% of men were victims of domestic abuse in the last year.
In Kenya, a men’s group reported that up to 460,000 men had been subjected to some sort of domestic abuse, citing an increase from 160,000 cases in 2009.
Nigerian Perspective
A study conducted in Port Harcourt, Nigeria, found that 10.4% of domestic violence victims were males.
Cases of men being abused by their wives include physical attacks, such as pouring hot water or oil on them, scratching, bruising, and stabbing and sometimes causing injury to male genital organ.
Men who experience domestic violence often suffer in silence due to societal expectations and fear of ridicule.
A patriarchal society and male ego can make it difficult for men to report abuse or seek help.
Prevalence
Underreported: The prevalence of domestic violence against men is often underreported due to societal norms and stigma.
Variability: Prevalence rates may vary depending on the country, culture, and population.
Global estimation: Global estimates suggest that a significant number of men experience domestic violence.
Lifetime prevalence: Men may experience domestic violence at any point in their lifetime.
Increased risk: Certain factors, such as relationship dynamics or societal norms, may increase the risk of domestic violence against men.
Hidden issues: Domestic violence against men can be a hidden issue, with many cases going unreported.
Need for research: More research is needed to understand the prevalence and impact of domestic violence against men.
Awareness and recognition: Raising awareness and recognition of domestic violence against men is crucial for prevention and support.
Support services: Men need access to support services and resources for domestic violence.
Inclusive approach: Addressing domestic violence against men requires an inclusive approach that acknowledges the experiences of all individuals.
Why Domestic Violence against Men are less reported
To be continued….
Dr Suleiman Tajudeen is CEO and Director of clinical psychology, Clear Mind Psychological Consult,Km 15, Badagry Expressway, Ojo, Lagos.
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